When some get out, they enter a "second prison!"
“You think
it’s all over. You think that after
they’ve been released from prison, after they’ve served their time, after
they’ve paid their debt to society, it’s over.
I tell you, it’s not! It’s
not!” The words of a mother, as we
chatted this week about her son's former incarceration.
To
underscore her position, when I arrived in the office following our meeting,
Matt was on the phone with an ex-offender who was begging for our help. He explained that he had been released three years ago, and his brother
graciously offered to let him sleep on the couch until he found a place to
live. Sadly, he’s still sleeping on the
couch. He’s on Michigan’s sex offender
registry and, even though he has the means and can afford the rent, he cannot
find a place to live.
That was
exactly the point of the prisoner’s mom.
“They can’t find a place to live, they can’t get a job…it just keeps
right on following them.”
In recent
weeks I have chatted with two delightful elderly black guys, for whom I held
prison doors open when they stepped into freedom last year. Both had served nearly 40 years behind bars,
but made the best of their lives while there.
Both were determined to become productive citizens upon their release.
Mr. J, who
had been a geriatric care giver for years while in prison, wanted to continue
that kind of work on the outside and got a nice job in an adult assisted living
facility. That is, until a routine
background check revealed his prison record.
He was instantly fired. State
regulations do not allow convicted felons to care for seniors in licensed
facilities.
Mr. B, who
continued his education at every opportunity behind bars, stayed on that path
after he was released. While gaining
further accreditation, he became a substance abuse counselor for a reputable
agency. That is, until one of the
clients recognized him, and quickly explained to the others around him, “He and
I served time together.” That kind of
reputation was too much for the agency.
He was instantly fired.
It’s easy to
point fingers. Blame the heartless
Department of Corrections, blame the stupid and terribly unfair Michigan Sex
Offender Registry, blame biased and opinionated managers who insist that
ex-offenders are a risk, and, of course, blame the ex-offender. If he/she hadn’t committed the crime in the
first place, he/she wouldn’t be facing this dilemma.
Those who
have read my book SWEET FREEDOM are aware of the challenges we faced finding a
place to live for Maurice Carter. He was
in the final stages of Hepatitis C, he was black, and he was a newly-freed
prisoner. It was almost impossible to
find a bed for him in this lily white area, even or especially among those
claiming religious affiliation.
Sorry. No room in the inn.
While some
of our churches are finally coming to the realization that a position on
immigration is important, we still find little interest in helping former
prisoners. Yes, we’re glad to give them
Bible lessons during their incarceration, but we’re really not all that excited
about having ex-offenders in our churches, our homes or heaven forbid, our
businesses..
I call it THE
SECOND PRISON. These men and women
are released from a locked facility behind barbed wire, into a society where
their chances are marginal. It’s simply
another prison, this one much more subtle.
No visible bars or wire
fences.
I’m sorry. The
buck stops here. The blame goes back to you and me.
May God give
us the compassion and the courage to do something about it.
Comments
Wish something could be done.